Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Some marriage examples from our beloved Prophet(pbuh)

BismillahirRahmaniRahim

Some of the examples of the beautiful qualities of our Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him)


He(peace be upon him) used to lie down with his head on Aisha's(ra) thighs even when she would be having her period.

After asar prayer he(peace be upon him) would visit all his wives...they would talk about past events and daily things and he(peace be upon him) would listen...sometimes he(peace be upon him) would tell them about some past events from his life.

Aisha(ra) says that he(peace be upon him) would sit among his wives and talk and laugh and it would not seem that he is a mighty messanger of Allah. but when the time for prayer would come, he would stop everything else..


The prophet(peace be upon him) made love to his wives at different times of the night.

He(peace be upon him) would invite the girls of the ansaar to come to his house and play with aisha. sometimes he(peace be upon him) would join them.

When Aisha(ra) would drink water from a cup, he would place his(peace be upon him) lips at the same place where she had placed her lips, and drink water. when she would eat meat off of a bone, he(peace be upon him) would place his mouth at the same place...


Once he(peace be upon him) challenged Aisha(ra) to a sprint. she beat him as she was young and agile..a few years later he(peace be upon him) challenged her again and this time he(peace be upon him) beat her as she had put on some weight..the prophet said(peace be upon him) " you beat me the first time...today i have taken my revenge "


He(peace be upon him) never shouted at his wives..if he did not like something he just would not talk to them...

Aisha(ra) says that he(peace be upon him) would always enter the house smiling.

Aisha(ra) says that once she cooked for him(peace be upon him)..hafsa(ra) also cooked for him at the same time. she told her servent to go and drop hafsa's food. the servent did that. the pan in which hafsa(ra) brought the food also fell down and broke. the prophet(peace be upon him) picked up hafsa's food and ate it and told hafsa to take aisha's pan as compensation...


Aisha(ra) says , " i brought harara to the prophet(peace be upon him) one day. Sauda(ra) was also there. i asked her to eat it too. for some reason she refused. i said, either you eat it or i will smear it on your face. she refused to eat..so i dipped my hand in the harara and smeared it all over her face. when the prophet(peace be upon him) saw this he started to laugh. he(peace be upon him) pinned me down with his hands, and asked sauda(ra) to smear my face with harara. she did that, and the prophet(peace be upon him) started to laugh again."


Aisha(ra) says that the prophet(peace be upon him) often talked about khadija(ra) and that made aisha(ra) jealous. one day she said to the prophet(peace be upon him) that khadija(ra) was old and had lost all her looks; why does he still talk about her when Allah has given him better ones (meaning herself) . the prophet(peace be upon him) said that Allah has not given him one better than khadija(ra); she was his only friend and believer when the whole world was against him...

Aisha(ra) says that at the time of his death the prophet(peace be upon him) was lying with his head resting on her lap.

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

its amazing how the wives where treated by the Rasul of Allah pbuh. There are also good examples in Rumi, when Mevlanas son gets married, Mevlana advises his son to treat his wife like he did the first night, always treat her that way.. so this can be a lesson maybe to some brothers out there :)
thanks sister

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